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		<title>By: TeenMommy</title>
		<link>http://fridaythang.com/blog/2010/02/05/taking-time-is-hard-to-do/comment-page-1/#comment-5975</link>
		<dc:creator>TeenMommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 04:15:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a size 9.5/10 in shoes, in which case... Nordstrom is great. I&#039;m not plugging them just because I used to work for them (I thought their idea that it&#039;s practically philanthropy to send someone out the door with lots of bags was/is utterly deluded), but because they&#039;re just very customer service oriented. They&#039;ll basically go through hell and high water to get you want you want in their store. Apparently some employees have been known to drive to other stores searching for whatever their customer was looking for. But, barring utter servitude of Nordstrom employees, it&#039;s still standard policy for them to have whatever you want to try on sent to their store and to then call you when it arrives so that you can come in and try it on. You can also make appointments with individual employees who you particularly like, and their schedule will be cleared so they can just work with you to get you exactly exactly what you want during that time. Though I wasn&#039;t fond of working there, it&#039;s a wonderful place to shop.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a size 9.5/10 in shoes, in which case&#8230; Nordstrom is great. I&#8217;m not plugging them just because I used to work for them (I thought their idea that it&#8217;s practically philanthropy to send someone out the door with lots of bags was/is utterly deluded), but because they&#8217;re just very customer service oriented. They&#8217;ll basically go through hell and high water to get you want you want in their store. Apparently some employees have been known to drive to other stores searching for whatever their customer was looking for. But, barring utter servitude of Nordstrom employees, it&#8217;s still standard policy for them to have whatever you want to try on sent to their store and to then call you when it arrives so that you can come in and try it on. You can also make appointments with individual employees who you particularly like, and their schedule will be cleared so they can just work with you to get you exactly exactly what you want during that time. Though I wasn&#8217;t fond of working there, it&#8217;s a wonderful place to shop.</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 02:44:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oooh. Those boots do like pretty great! =D

And I agree that it&#039;s worth spending some extra money on something (like shoes) that are supposed to be comfortable and last a long time. I just have horrible, horrible comparative shopping urges, making it difficult for me to make any decisions... It&#039;s the same reason I ultimately have issues spending lots of money on clothing. 

I&#039;m working on it, though. Even better when my mom pays for the shoes! (And thanks for the tip on buying a size up. Unfortunately, I&#039;m a womens 10; 10s and 11s aren&#039;t impossible to find, but they&#039;re on the upper end of what stores usually have. The plus size is they&#039;re often the sizes that end up on sale.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oooh. Those boots do like pretty great! =D</p>
<p>And I agree that it&#8217;s worth spending some extra money on something (like shoes) that are supposed to be comfortable and last a long time. I just have horrible, horrible comparative shopping urges, making it difficult for me to make any decisions&#8230; It&#8217;s the same reason I ultimately have issues spending lots of money on clothing. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m working on it, though. Even better when my mom pays for the shoes! (And thanks for the tip on buying a size up. Unfortunately, I&#8217;m a womens 10; 10s and 11s aren&#8217;t impossible to find, but they&#8217;re on the upper end of what stores usually have. The plus size is they&#8217;re often the sizes that end up on sale.)</p>
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		<title>By: TeenMommy</title>
		<link>http://fridaythang.com/blog/2010/02/05/taking-time-is-hard-to-do/comment-page-1/#comment-5959</link>
		<dc:creator>TeenMommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 02:03:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shoes. Well, unfortunately, I definitely fit the ladybrains love shoes stereotype, so, um...

Expensive shoes are usually worth it. They&#039;re almost always made of higher quality materials that breathe better and just feel better all around. The most expensive pair of shoes I ever bought cost 240 on sale + with my employee discount at Nordstrom, where I used to work. It was a pair of Cole Haan boots made with Nike Air technology. They have pretty high heels, but they feel fabulous. Indulge me and allow me to share a pic: 

http://g.nordstromimage.com/imagegallery/store/product/MediumLarge/4/_5918644.jpg

Yes. THOSE are comfortable. Really.

I rarely buy shoes at TJ Maxx or something because I end up getting ones that are cute but end up killing my feet. I&#039;d say the way to go is to have a certain shoe budget and to spend it on very few pairs of well-researched, expensive shoes once they&#039;ve gone on sale. Also, it&#039;s not always possible, but trying to buy a size up and then stuff the shoes with every manner of padding on all inside parts is something else I do. My mom does it too, and she&#039;s a flight attendant who is on her feet 14 hours a day while working, so if she says it works, it definitely works.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shoes. Well, unfortunately, I definitely fit the ladybrains love shoes stereotype, so, um&#8230;</p>
<p>Expensive shoes are usually worth it. They&#8217;re almost always made of higher quality materials that breathe better and just feel better all around. The most expensive pair of shoes I ever bought cost 240 on sale + with my employee discount at Nordstrom, where I used to work. It was a pair of Cole Haan boots made with Nike Air technology. They have pretty high heels, but they feel fabulous. Indulge me and allow me to share a pic: </p>
<p><a href="http://g.nordstromimage.com/imagegallery/store/product/MediumLarge/4/_5918644.jpg" rel="nofollow">http://g.nordstromimage.com/imagegallery/store/product/MediumLarge/4/_5918644.jpg</a></p>
<p>Yes. THOSE are comfortable. Really.</p>
<p>I rarely buy shoes at TJ Maxx or something because I end up getting ones that are cute but end up killing my feet. I&#8217;d say the way to go is to have a certain shoe budget and to spend it on very few pairs of well-researched, expensive shoes once they&#8217;ve gone on sale. Also, it&#8217;s not always possible, but trying to buy a size up and then stuff the shoes with every manner of padding on all inside parts is something else I do. My mom does it too, and she&#8217;s a flight attendant who is on her feet 14 hours a day while working, so if she says it works, it definitely works.</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 04:11:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, from the pieces I read or skimmed through, I think the book was ultimately aimed at women who were attracted to bois or trans men. I&#039;ll definitely post something longer about the book soon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, from the pieces I read or skimmed through, I think the book was ultimately aimed at women who were attracted to bois or trans men. I&#8217;ll definitely post something longer about the book soon.</p>
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		<title>By: Jonah</title>
		<link>http://fridaythang.com/blog/2010/02/05/taking-time-is-hard-to-do/comment-page-1/#comment-5928</link>
		<dc:creator>Jonah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 01:15:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seriously, erotica about transmen? It seems to me most erotica purporting to be about transpeople is about feminine people whose penises get fetishized.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously, erotica about transmen? It seems to me most erotica purporting to be about transpeople is about feminine people whose penises get fetishized.</p>
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