Saying “butt sex” doesn’t make it sound sexy…
…but anyone at all interested (or even if you’re not interested!) should check out Anal Sex Myths, pt 1 at Sex Etc… From the post:
Myth: Butt sex is painful- Butt sex can be painful, if you’re not careful and communicating closely with your partner. In short NO, BUTT SEX SHOULD NOT HURT. EVER. Everyone got that? If it hurts, it means something is wrong and you should stop, figure out what’s wrong, and keep going only if both partners are still up for it and ready. This is why you should never use a numbing agent. You could not realize you’re hurting until you’ve done serious damage.
Go read the rest!

